Writing from firsthand experience, Allison Bottke identifies the lies that kept her, and ultimately her son, in bondage—and how she overcame them. Additional real-life stories from other parents appear throughout the text.


A tough-love guide to coping with dysfunctional adult children, Setting Boundaries with Your Adult Children will empower families by offering hope and healing through S.A.N.I.T.Y.—a six-step program to help parents regain control in their homes and in their lives.



- S = STOP Enabling, STOP Blaming Yourself, and STOP the Flow of Money

- A = Assemble a Support Group

- N = Nip Excuses in the Bud

- I = Implement Rules/Boundaries

- T = Trust Your Instincts

- Y = Yield Everything to God